January 3, 1936 - December 11, 2020
Visitation
A visitation will be held on Monday, January 4th, 2021 from 9:00a.m. to 12:00p.m. at Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home, located at 831 Industrial Way, Lodi CA, 95240.
Service
A graveside service will take place afterwards on Monday, January 4th, 2021 at 1:00p.m. at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off of Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.
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July 31, 1945 - December 11, 2020
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March 31, 1924 - December 11, 2020
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June 01, 1927 - December 09, 2020
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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Cox family.
June 23, 1965 - December 08, 2020
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January 05, 1940 - December 08, 2020
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Marilyn Ann Wylie, educator, arts advocate, wife, and mother, passed away Tuesday, December 8, 2020, following a months’ long illness. She was 84.
Mrs. Wylie, a resident of the Morada community, had a distinguished career as a public schools’ teacher in Southern California, Northern Virginia, Texas, and at Stockton’s Edison High School from which she retired in 2007. She taught home economics at Edison but much of her teaching career was devoted to arts education, serving as a teacher and an arts and grants administrator.
Her professional achievements in art education were recognized by the Texas State Art Education Association who named her Texas State Art Educator of the Year in 1996. The National Art Education Association subsequently named her Art Teacher of the Year for the western states.
She helped establish a new arts magnet school in Houston that was recognized by the Annenberg Foundation as one of the top 10 innovative schools in Houston, designated a “Beacon School for the 21st Century.” She was responsible for developing and implementing the school’s arts curriculum.
While teaching in Northern Virginia’s Fairfax County School System, she and a colleague obtained two grants from the National Endowment for the Humanities that enabled them to introduce a new schools curriculum celebrating colonial arts in a “Sheep to Shawl” program. Students learned to spin, dye and weave fabric through which they were introduced to Virginia’s colonial history.
When Mrs. Wylie returned to California and settled in Stockton in 1999, she joined community organizations and became an activist for gender equality. She was legislative chair for the Tau Chapter of Delta Kappa Gamma (DKG), the retired teachers’ sorority, and public policy chair for the American Association of University Women – Stockton Branch (AAUW). She was also a member of the League of Women Voters, a docent at the Haggin Museum, and is a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution.
Her community activism earned her the Susan B. Anthony Medal in 2017 from the San Joaquin County Commission on the Status of Women.
In the year 2000, she was elected a vice president and director of Park Bixby Tower, Inc., a non-profit corporation aiding the elderly. Mrs. Wylie established the organization’s first grants program. The Haggin Museum was a major beneficiary with grants helping to modernize and improve its collections, particularly in ways that would benefit seniors. In addition, she obtained grants supporting literacy programs sponsored by AAUW and DKG.
As part of her corporate philanthropic work, she established a senior wellness program in 2007 with California State University Long Beach benefitting community seniors. At the same time, she led efforts leading to the University’s decision to locate and operate a senior university -- Osher Life-Long Learning Institute (OLLI) -- off campus in the central business district of Long Beach and nearer to the city’s senior population.
Mrs. Wylie was born and grew up in Glendale, CA, the daughter of Curtis and Annabell George. She is a 1958 graduate of UCLA with a Bachelor of Science degree. She later earned a Master of Arts degree from Sam Houston State University near Houston.
In 1959 she married Russell Lee Wylie whom she met at UCLA through involvement in student activities. Last year they celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. At UCLA she was a member of the Delta Delta Delta Sorority, a class vice president, a member of then UC Presidents Robert Gordon Sproul’s and later President Clark Kerr’s student advisory Cal Club, and was named an outstanding graduate for class year 1958.
In addition to her husband, she is survived by her sons Matthew Lee Wylie of Alexandria VA and his wife Katherine Ong Wylie, and Michael Curtis Wylie of Long Beach, CA, and his wife Lora Kermode Wylie, and two grandsons, David Lee Wylie and Edward Madison (Ted) Wylie, both of Alexandria; sister-in-law Nancy Wylie Hathcock and Jeff Hathcock of Long Beach; and niece Allyson Oplinger and husband Robert Oplinger, of Phoenix, AZ. Her brother Ronald George predeceased her in 2006.
January 10, 1934 - December 07, 2020
George entered Everlasting Life after a sudden illness on December 7, 2020 in the presence of his beloved wife, Bobbie at his bedside. He was born January 10, 1934 to John and Christine Stoller in Hazelton, North Dakota. He was one of 10 children. He was preceded in death by seven brothers, one sister, and a previous wife Arlene Stoller.
George proudly served in the US Navy onboard the USS Aggressive-class Minesweeper during the Korean War. After the war, he returned to his home in Hazelton. He then moved to San Francisco, California where he worked many years at Metropolitan Life Insurance. George later moved to Lodi, California and became a business owner/operator of the Rainbow Club, G.Js and Harold Club Card Room until his retirement.
George was an avid fisherman, billiards player, card player, and sports fan of the Kings, San Francisco Giants, and San Francisco 49ers. He was a smart, kind, and witty man with a never ending sense of humor. He was generous in his giving and rarely asked for assistance. He would tell stories of his childhood that were followed by great laughter from all who were listening. He would visit relatives frequently and was a great friend to have.
George is survived by his wife Bobbie, son Brian (Shelley) Stoller of Elk Grove, California, daughter Paige (Ray) Patenaude of Tega Cay, South Carolina, 9 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren, sister Caroline Kalstrom, sister-in-law Jeanne (Walter) Stoller, and many nieces and nephews who shared an unique, adoring relationship with their Uncle George.
SERVICES:
A celebration of George’s Life will be planned for friends and family after the Pandemic. George’s family wants to extend their gratitude and thanks for all the kind words, support, and love given to them during this difficult time. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers, to purchase/plant a plant for your home in his memory. We will share George’s smile with all of you at his Celebration of Life.
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October 26, 1933 - December 07, 2020
“Tommy”, as he was lovingly known by many, joined his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on December 7, 2020. He was born October 26, 1933 in Hastings, Nebraska to Clarence and Mary Graham Gates. Tom’s family which included his twin brother, John Gates, moved to Lodi, CA when they were seven and he continued to reside in the San Joaquin area for the balance of his life. He graduated from Lodi Union High School and then from Sacramento State College whereupon he immediately went to work for New York Life and continued there until his retirement 33 years later. While at New York Life he obtained his Series 7 license and ChFC designation.
Tommy’s love for tennis started in high school and he continued to be an avid player until a few months prior to his passing. He also enjoyed dancing and reconnected with his loving wife of 37 years, Rosalie (Tortorelli), on the dance floor at a high school reunion. They were married a year later. His many other pleasures included socializing and traveling with dear friends and sharing a glass or two of Cabernet. His home in Stockton was the “gathering place” for holidays, birthday celebrations and impromptu parties.
Tommy never had a harsh ord for anyone and when speaking with you he made you feel as though you were the most important person in the room. Tom was a faithful and active member of The Church of the Presentation, a prior President of Quail Village Homeowners Association and served on the board of the Quail Lakes Lakefront Association for many years.
Tom is survived by his wife, Rosalie; his twin brother John (Norma); his two daughters Suzanne (Bill) MacDonald and Kathy (Bill) Pursell; his stepchildren Robert (Nina) Kickhofel, Michele Kickhofel, Kim (Michael) Morrill; and his ten grandchildren Samantha, Robert (Shanley), Krystal, Kenneth, Steven, Ross, Madisen, Spencer, Stephanie and Brant. He was a loving husband, father and grandfather and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
An outdoor mass will be held on Wednesday, December 16th at 10 am at Church of The Presentation, 6715 Leesburg Place, Stockton (bring a chair) and viewing will be held on Thursday, December 17th from 10:30 to 11:30 am at Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home, 831 Industrial Way, Lodi. All COVID precautions will be enforced and due to restrictions, the graveside burial/internment is limited to family. There is an online condolence book on the Cherokee Memorial Park website at https://www.cherokeememorial. com/services-obituaries-main. In lieu of flowers, the family welcomes donations to local food banks and distribution.
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February 16, 1929 - December 06, 2020
Elsie was born February 16, 1929 in British Guiana, South America. She traveled extensively and obtained her U.S. citizenship in 1958. She worked for the Veteran's Administration in Washington, D.C. and retired from San Joaquin Human Services Department after 28 years of employment. Elsie was an active member of the Stockton Central Seventh-Day-Adventist Church serving in several capacities.
She enjoyed reading, playing the piano and singing. She was always quick with a kind word for everyone she met.
Elsie was preceded in death by Marvin, her husband of 50 years. She was loving mother to Lee Philippi (Karen) of Stockton, Barbara Pinch (Rod) of Stillwater, Minnesota and Molly Mills (Gene) of Santa Rosa. Devoted grandmother to six children. She is also survived by her sisters Anne Burns of Placerville and Enid Durant of Castaic, CA.
Elsie will be interred at Cherokee Memorial Park, Lodi CA.
Donations can be made in her memory to the Stockton Central S.D.A. Women's Ministeries.
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January 15, 1937 - December 06, 2020
VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 1:00pm - 4:00pm on Friday December 18, 2020 at Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.
SERVICE
The graveside service will be held at 10:00am on Saturday December 19, 2020 at the Garden of Grace at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.
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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Nguyen family.
June 14, 1931 - December 06, 2020
Nettie Threadgill, age 89, went home to be with the Lord on Sunday, December 6th, 2020. She was born on June 14th, 1931 in Barnsdall, Oklahoma to Earl and Jewel Johnson. Here are words from her mother recalling the day Nettie was saved: “Our darling daughter accepted her lord and Savior during Bible school on April 24, 1942 and was presented a Bible from Rev. Hugh Reid who conducted the Bible school.” - Jewel Johnson.
She married Bill Threadgill on December 22nd, 1950 in Joplin, Missouri. This year would have been their 70th wedding anniversary.
Her favorite job was to teach in Preschool at Orangeburg Christian School in Modesto, CA. She was a huge college football fan of University of Oklahoma.
Nettie lived in California for the last 15 years of her life. She is survived by three daughters Cheryl, Rhonda and Crystal along with three sons-in-law Craig, John and Randy. Nettie has four grandchildren Drew, Carly, Chelsea and Brooke along with their spouses Roni, Chance and Herb. Her great grandchildren whom she loved so much are Noah, Lucy, Mae, Emma, Jack, Elijah, Jillian and Avery.
Romans 5:1-5
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
SERVICE
A graveside service will be held at 10:00am on Saturday December 12, 2020 at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.
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July 27, 1963 - December 06, 2020
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April 08, 1948 - December 06, 2020
VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 12:00pm on Wednesday December 16, 2020 at Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.
SERVICE
The memorial service will follow at 1:00pm on Wednesday December 16, 2020 at at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.
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May 17, 1923 - December 06, 2020
Sandra Louise Camden Blanton, loving and beloved mother, grandmother, wife, and friend.
On December 6, 2020 we lost our mom. She was the kindest, most generous, and best person you could ever meet. Though she rarely attended church, she was extremely religious in her own way, and could often be found studying her Bible. She had deeply held Christian principles that she lived every day of her life.
The youngest of six children, mom was born in the late spring of 1923 in rural Virginia to the former Minnie McClara Campbell, and Thomas Nuckols Camden. From her family she gave and received unconditional love.
As she grew, she displayed an aptitude for the arts. She wrote stories and illustrated them herself, winning prizes for her efforts along the way. She began to sing and in the 1930s and 40s, found herself a frequent performer on local radio shows. She valued family above personal advancement, declining to pursue a scholarship to Juilliard as it would have taken her away from those she loved.
As World War II dawned, she blossomed into a young woman, and her beauty came to rival her artistic talents. She joined the USO and became a poster girl. Before choosing dad, she had 32 separate— previously rejected— proposals of marriage. She said “no” to him too at first and for many times afterwards before he finally won her over.
Mom adored her mother, who unfortunately passed at a young age. Mom’s older sister, Kitty became a second mother to her, and later a favorite aunt to us. If anything, mom’s commitment to family deepened because of this, and her children, Teresa and Steve were the beneficiaries.
She was a devoted mother, giving her children her total, complete, and unconditional love. In return she received unconditional love from them. She used her artistic talents to her children’s benefit, frequently singing, reading, and drawing with them. She was always there for those she loved, and she loved and was loved by many others in addition to her children.
When dad passed on December 16, 1975 (Kitty passed earlier that same year), she drew on her experiences growing up in the great depression to stretch every penny as far as possible in order to get her family through. She did get us through.
The day before she passed she said she wanted to see her mother again. She pointed upward, and asked “Do you see the door?” However, mom hung on long enough so that we could all see her again. We weren’t ready to say good bye, but we each got to tell her in our way how much we loved her. As was her way, she left quietly without fanfare and without company, crossing over in her sleep, with peace, no pain and no fear. She lived her life on her own terms and left it the same way.
Though we miss her terribly, we know that when that door opened for her, Jesus was on the other side. We know that she is with him now, and that she is with her mother too. That she is with Kitty, with dad; with almost everyone that ever loved her and that she loved in return. We know that the rest of us will join her one day, and we know that when the door opens for each of us, she will be on the other side waiting. We love you so much mom!
She is survived by her daughter Teresa, son Steve, grandson Justin, and daughter-in-law Sophia, who will all cherish her memory for the rest of their lives.
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July 09, 1935 - December 05, 2020
Benjamin J. Reddish, Jr. 85, passed away on December 5, 2020.
Mr. Reddish is well known in the greater Stockton community for his leadership and transformation of the lives many students during his time as an educator in the Stockton Unified School District. Alongside his wife Janie, Mr. Reddish had a life fully dedicated to serving others. He received his Master's degree from the Benerd School of Education in 1971. During his long career as a teacher and counselor in Stockton, he consistently focused his skills on being a role model for youth and providing students with the skills needed to reach their full potential and become productive citizens. In addition to his calling to counsel, Mr. Reddish helped transform lives as a volunteer for Pacific's Community Involvement Program (CIP), and serving on many boards, including The Kiwanis Club of Stockton, the Stockton Symphony Association, The San Joaquin County Historical Society, Phi Delta Kappa International, Stockton Sister Cities Organization, Association of Filipino American Educators, The Esquire Club of Stockton, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., People to People International , SUSD Black Employees Association, National Association for Advancement of Colored People (NAACP). In 2017, he was honored with an award from the Community Involvement Program (CIP) named after him, the Benjamin Reddish Community Impact Award. In 2019, he was honored by the Pacific Alumni Association for the Distinguished Alumni Award for Volunteer Service. Photography was a love of his and he could often be taking photos at various events. When he had an opportunity to share wisdom from the stage/podium, which was often, we heard many stories filled with humor, hope and empowerment. He was the epitome of Black excellence and served as a source of inspiration for many people over a lifetime of leadership, scholarship and genuine love for each and every person who had the pleasure of learning from him. Mr. Reddish will be deeply missed, but his memory and teachings will continue to be cherished by his survivors: his wife, Janie B. Reddish of Stockton, Ca; one son Mr. Benjamin J. Reddish, III of Wyoming, RI, one sister in-law Mary Arnwine of Ivoryton, CT, one nephew Mr. Carlos V. (Shirley) Cave, Sr. of Bluffton, SC, one niece Dr. Harriet Anita Roland of Orangeburg, SC several great nephews and nieces; numerous cousins, loving friends, former students, fraternity brothers and many caring associates.
Mr. Reddish would always ask… "Are you choosing to have a good day?" so let's each remember his words of encouragement as we walk through our daily lives and "Make the Choice to Have a Good Day."
A memorial service will be held on Sunday, December 13th 2020 at 4:00pm on Zoom. To receive a service bulletin and ZOOM link please e-mail Susie Wanden BY 3:00 p.m. on Friday December 11: swanden@cumcstockton.org. Include your contact information for the guest book.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the scholarship fund honoring Benjamin J. Reddish, Jr.: Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship, University of the Pacific, 3601 Pacific Ave Stockton, CA 95211, Attn: Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship Or electronically: Reference: Benjamin Reddish or Benjamin and Janie Reddish Endowed Scholarship, Online Giving Link: www.pacific.edu/makeagift
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November 20, 1949 - December 05, 2020
Wayne Diede, 71, passed away unexpectedly in his home on Saturday, December 5, 2020.
He was born in Lodi to Lillian Doddington and Lloyd Diede. He spent his childhood on the family ranch working side by side with his brothers and sisters in the vineyards and running cattle. He graduated from Lodi High before enlisting in the US Army where he served as an Airborne Ranger in Vietnam. He earned many medals. Years later he was married and had his two children. Together with his family he built a legacy to be proud of. As a proud owner of Diede Construction / Companies he gave his all. He spent a lifetime giving back to the community.
He was a strong man who was fiercely loyal. A serious man who appreciated a good laugh. He had a great sense of humor. He was an awesome dad and even better grandpa. He loved spending time with the family and chasing or hearing about the grandkids adventures. He enjoyed a warm afternoon on the tractor, a comfy chair and a nice movie with his sweetheart on his lap or a nice book and a quick nap. He was a diehard 49er fan and loved watching and participating in his children's and grandchildren's sports activities. He was always their biggest fan.
He left behind his partner, Donna Bills; his children, Jake (Taylor) Diede and Jessica (Isaac) Ramirez; his grandchildren, Jacob and Jaxon Diede and Genesis and Noah Ramirez; his brothers, Steve (Bo) and Bruce (Tammy) Diede; sisters, Marcia (Bob) Lee and Margo (Mark) Cook; and his many nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews who he loved very much.
SERVICE
There will be a private Service Tuesday, December 15th at Cherokee Memorial. He will be laid to rest in the Garden of Freedom.
Dad if I had a choice I would still choose you. Thank you for everything you poured in to us. We love you.
Donations in lieu of flowers can be sent to the American Legion Lodi Post 22 P.O. Box 521 Lodi CA 95241 or Micke Grove Zoo Foundation, ATTN: Park Donation Trust, Miscellaneous Account, 1150 W. Robinhood Dr., Suite 11-A, Stockton, CA. 95207.
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May 3, 1948 - December 04, 2020
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March 29. 1917 - December 04, 2020
Zelma Mae Bradshaw, age 103, of Charlotte, IA, passed away Friday, December 4, 2020 at her home of natural causes.
Zelma was born on March 29, 1917 in Allegan, MI, the daughter of Clarence and Bertha (Curtis) Davis. She married Walther Bradshaw on Sept 21, 1935 in Allegan, MI. He died in 1996. They moved to Stockton, CA and lived there until she moved to Iowa in 2007. She was an exceptional cook and waitress at T’s Drive-In for many years. Zelma enjoyed needlepoint, singing, doing word search puzzles every day, her church activities, and her cats and dogs.
Zelma is survived by her granddaughter Connie (Donald) Lewis of Baxter Springs, KS; her grandson Mark (Tina) Wright of Stockton, CA; and granddaughter in law Joleen Wright of Charlotte, IA; 11 great grandchildren; 16 great great grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband- Walter, daughter- Delores Bradshaw Wright, grandson- John Wright, and her brother and 3 sisters.
VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 11:00am on Monday December 14, 2020 at Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.
SERVICE
The graveside service will follow at 11:00am on Monday December 14, 2020 at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.
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Prabha “Susan” Wati Shandil, 81, of Stockton, CA, passed away on December 4, 2020, following a stroke on November 13, 2020.
Prabha was born in Suva, Fiji on March 5, 1939 and married Ram Kirpal on June 21, 1958. They immigrated to the United States with their 4 children in 1971 and lived in California (South San Francisco, Milpitas, Fremont, Stockton) most of their lives. They were married 62 years.
Prabha took any job to help provide for her family, including working for Agnews hospital for 10 years. She enjoyed her family, cooking, gardening and always had beautiful flowers, fruits and vegetables anywhere she lived and was known for her curries, chutneys and delicious Indian food.
Prabha is survived by her spouse Ram Kirpal Shandil; children, Ranjani Singh (Eddie), Lajani Prasad, Suresh Shandil (Debbie), Sonny Brunofski (Mike); grandchildren Neelam Singh, Alex Shandil, Ashley Prasad, Emery Shandil, Nicholas Brunofski and Alyson Shandil; great grandchildren Alexis Domingo, Alyssa Domingo and Michael Domingo; siblings Saras “Sue” Chandra , Chandra “Queenie” Chandra , Sunila “Sunny” Sharma-Singh and Jigendra “Jeff” Maharaj; nieces & nephews; great nieces & nephews, great-great niece, cousins and friends.
She is preceded in death by her parents, Jagar Nath Maharaj and Siripati Maharaj; brothers Narendra “Nick” Sharma, Muni Deo Sharma and Dhirendra Nath “Dave” Sharma.
SERVICES:
A small outdoor service will be held at 1:00pm on Sunday, December 13, 2020 at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Road (Harney Lane at Highway 99), Lodi CA, 95241.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations, please make a donation in her memory, to your choice of organizations which are providing for the currently high time of need. An additional option is to Plant a tree in memory of Prabha/Susan/Mom/Aji/Nani please visit https://www.alivingtribute.org
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