Ruth J. Boliou

November 6, 1924 – August 5, 2022 

Mrs. Ruth J. Boliou, lovingly referred to as “Oots”, of Lodi, CA, passed away Friday, August 5, 2022 in Fairmont Rehab Hospital at the age of 97.  Ruth was born November 6, 1924 in mason City, Iowa, to Johnny and Louise Weitzel. 

By the age of 5 she was already helping with the chores on the family farm.  In her early teens the family moved to St. Paul Park, Minnesota.  She attended and graduated from St. Paul High School in 1942, and also met her future husband there, Perrie Boliou.

During World War II she installed electronic gear and bombsites in U.S. bombers (Rosie the Riveter).  After Perrie was honorable discharged from the Naval Air Force, they were married on December 27, 1945.  They resided in Newport, MN, building their first home and raised two children Diana (Boliou) Mueller (Brent) of Northfield, MN and David Boliou (Lois) of Lodi, CA.  Perrie went to work at the 1st National Bank of St. Paul and Ruth stayed home as a marvelous housewife, loving and caring mother, and devoted wife.  In 1966 they moved to Mendota Heights, MN, residing there until Perrie’s retirement in 1978.  They then moved to Lodi, CA, where she resided as a loving wife, mother, grandmother of 2, Stacy (Mueller) Tepp and Brett Boliou, and great grandmother of 5, Skylar, Nora, and Annalee Tepp, and Janelle and Zachary Boliou.

Ruth was preceded in death by her husband Perrie Boliou.

A private service of the family will be held at Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi, CA.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Boliou family.

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David Aguilera

November 18, 1954 - August 5, 2022

David Aguilera was born November 18th 1954 and peacefully went with our heavenly father on August 5th 2022 at the age of 67. With his family by his side. David fought hard for 14 months to have a dignified life while dealing with Pancreatic Cancer.

David always said he was so blessed to have family, friends and co-workers that meant so much to him. He gave everyone 100% of his time, attention or whatever else you needed, he was always there for us. David was a good man with good values, great work ethics, compassionate, funny, he loved deeply, and endless faith in our lord Jesus Christ.

David had faith always! sometimes it was stronger than other times because he just could not understand why something happened but at the end of his wondering why, he said he left it all in God’s hands. David said he would find out why when our Lord would take him home. So I know all David's questions are being answered.

David went home peacefully and will be missed deeply by his boys Raymond (Courtney), Marcus and Nick, grandchildren Nicholas, Benjamin, Olivia, David, Leah, Brooklynn, Maddison and 1 great granddaughter Alaiya.

David is survived by his sister Lena (Louie).

Preceded in death: His Mother Ramona, Brother Ernie.

Brother in laws Richard (Diana) Michael (Elsie) and father in law Ben Rivera. Plus so many friends and co-workers, nieces, nephews, cousins, uncles, Aunts i can go on and on about all the lives he touched.

I will miss him beyond any words I can put on paper. My love for him is endless, we had 34 years of marriage and that was to short. David, I love you passionately, my heart just aches to see you and be with you again. I know you are in loving hands and no more pain. I will find comfort in knowing that.

With all my love until I see you again, Debra

SERVICES:

Services for David will take place on Wednesday August 17, 2022 at 1:00pm in the Vineyard Chapel located at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 Beckman Rd in Lodi, California.

CELEBRATION OF LIFE will follow this service at Spanos East Clubhouse 6226 Mokelumne Cir. Stockton California 95219.

John Blotti, Sr.

July 24, 1951 - July 31, 2022

John passed away in Stockton, California at the age of 71. He was born in Duluth, Minnesota in 1951. He grew up in Duluth, Minnesota and graduated from Denfield High. He found the love of his life and moved to Stockton, California in 1976. He was a laborer of Valley Tomato for about 25 years. He was a security guard for about 15 years. He was a lumber worker for about 2 years. He is survived by his wife Nora Blotti, 4 children Shelly Blotti, Sandra Vann, John Blotti Jr. and Mark Blotti, 15 grandchildren, and 14 great grandchildren. He also has 1 living sister who lives in Wisconsin and 2 brothers who live in Minnesota. His happiness came from God and his whole family.

Services: Viewing Tuesday 16th at 10:00am, with the service starting at 1:00pm at the Vineyard Chapel in Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi, California.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Blotti family.

Judy Bender

October 21, 1940 - July 30, 2022

Judy Veda Bender was born October 21, 1940 in Stockton, California to George and Alice McPherson. While attending Stockton College High School, she met the love of her life, Frank Bender.

Judy loved traveling across the United States, reading books, journal writing, genealogy, gardening, and her numerous dogs that she named “Sam”.

Judy is predeceased by her parents George and Alice McPherson, brother Ronald McPherson, husband Frank Bender, and son Frank Bender Jr. She is survived by her daughter Janet Jefferson (John) and grandchildren: Jennifer Lee (Albert), Joshua Jefferson (Heather), Jason Bender (Krysta), Joanne Johnson (Michael), Daniel Touchstone (Kendra), and Cody Kavanaugh (Krysta). She has 13 great grandchildren.

 SERVICES:

The visitation for Judy will be held on Friday, August 19, 2022 from 11:00am – 12:00pm at Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home, 831 Industrial Way, in Lodi, California.

 A graveside service will follow on August 19, 2022, at 12:00pm at Cherokee Memorial Park.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Bender family.

John ‘Jack’ Cowan

August 30, 1932 - July 27, 2022

Jack Cowan lived a full and amazing life as a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend. In the 1950’s Jack joined the Marine Corps where he fought on the front lines in two major battles in Korea.

Jack had an extensive career as well, working in the plumbing industry as a young man, and later taking on construction and land development for nearly 20 years. He finally settled as a farmer, when he purchased 60 acres of land in Morada, CA where he built his family home and would go on to farm 58 acres of Bing cherries until the last year of his life.

Jack’s hobbies included fishing and hunting. He owned 3 different commercial fishing boats which he operated out of his favorite place: Fort Bragg, CA. Jack was also an avid hunter – hunting deer, elk, moose, and various fowl.

Jack is survived by his wife Barbara, his daughter Kathi, and his 2 grandchildren William and Alexa.

He will be missed dearly by the family and friends he leaves behind.

SERVICES:

Services for Jack will be held Tuesday, August 9, 2022 at 1:00pm in the Vineyard Chapel located at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 Beckman Rd. in Lodi, California.

His celebration of life to follow.

Mary Kooyman

August 11, 1932 - July 24, 2022

Mary Ellen entered Heaven on July 24, 2022.  She was born August 11, 1932 in Weaverville, CA to Alton and Ella Jack.

Mary Ellen is survived by her husband Barney Kooyman, sons Eric (Eva) Lobaugh and Dr. Mark Lobaugh (Jeannie), sister Shirley Phelan, sister-in-law Jean Rauser, grandchildren: Christa Lobaugh Cordova, Elizabeth Lobaugh, Kurt Lobaugh, Christoper Manginelli, Andrew Manginelli, and Cassidy Lobaugh.  She was predeceased by her first husband, Kurt Jeffrey Lobaugh, daughter Caryn Manginelli, and brothers Dale Jack and Ellis Jack.

Mary Ellen graduated from Reno High School in 1950, and from San Francisco State University in 1954 with a B.A. in Music.  She then earned her teaching credential from U.O.P in 1955.  Her family settled in Lodi California in 1961.  While raising her three children, she also impacted many other children who came to her for private piano lessons.

Mary Ellen began teaching full-time in 1969 at Oak View School in Acampo, CA.  She retired in 1994.  During her tenure she taught all grades, K – 8.  The San Joaquin County Office of Education recognized her as an excellent teacher and honored her with the John R. Williams award in 1989.

Mary Ellen was a devout member of the Grace Presbyterian Church since its inagural year in 1961.  Over the years she served as a sunday school teacher, choir director, organist/pianist, and as an elder.

Her love of music landed her in the Stockton Chorale from 1980 – 1993 where she traveled throughout Europe on three different concert tours.  They also toured through Australia and New Zealand.

Mary Ellen remarried in 1994 to her new soul mate and best friend, Barney Kooyman.  They too loved to travel, hitting such far-flung places as Russia, Poland, Argentina, Chile and the Faukland Islands.

Mary Ellen was a member of many civic organizations including the Iota Beta Chapter of SigmaPhi, Lodi Music Teachers Association (president-1966), Chapter 150 Order of Eastern Star and the Lodi New Comers Club.

SERVICES:

All friends and family are invited to attend Mary Ellen’s Memorial service to be held at Grace Presbyterian Church, 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, August 11, 2022. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made, in her name, to her favorite charity, Jerusalem Prayer Team International or to the charity of your choice.

 

George Kitagawa

May 23, 1930 - July 22, 2022

George Hiroshi Kitagawa was born in Stockton on May 23, 1930 and passed away at the age of 92 on July 22, 2022.

George is survived by his wife Megumi (Tomimatsu) of 63 years, son Kevin (Karen), daughter Kathlynn (Bob) Uenaka, granddaughters Megan, Danielle, Miya and Kimi, grandson Brandon, sister Fumiye Iwamura, brothers Tom and Dennis (Janice), sister-in-law Nuiko Shimozaki and numerous nieces and nephews.

He enjoyed tending to his veggie garden, building things out of wood, attending UOP Men’s basketball games, watching his favorite sports teams (Warriors, Giants, and 49ers), and being a loving grandfather to his five grandchildren. He looked forward to spending time with his Friday Gardening Crew friends at the Stockton Buddhist Church and going to Red Hawk Casino once a month.

George will always be remembered as a kind, warm-hearted and thoughtful husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend who was always willing to lend a helping hand.

A memorial service for George will be held at the Stockton Buddhist Church on September 24, 2022 at 11:00am.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Kitagawa family.

Erwin Perry

December 9, 1938 - July 19, 2022

Erwin Boyd Perry, age 83, was born in Muskegon, Michigan on December 9, 1938 to Hurshel and Louise (Wilson) Perry. He passed away peacefully with family by his side in Stockton, California on July 19, 2022. Erwin is survived by Darolyn, his beloved wife of 62 years, Sons; Richard (Corrinne) Perry and Darold (Jodi) Perry, Grandchildren; Katelyn (Aaron) Wiley, Christopher Perry, Connor Perry, Jacob Perry, and Seth Perry, Great Grandchildren; Aubrey and Avery Wiley, Sisters; Noma Moore-Deering and June (Edward) Hogan, Brother; Monte Perry, Brother-in-laws; Larry King, Terry Trapp, numerous nephews, nieces, and many dear friends, most who simply called him “Pops”.
Erwin was preceded in death by his parents, sister Janice Trapp, brother-in-law Jack Deering, and sister-in-law Margie Perry.
Erwin graduated from high school in Grant, Michigan, and he joined the US Air Force shortly after. During his 23-year career, he held various positions in base supply, logistics, was a training instructor and recruiter. He served duty in England, Germany, Libya, Vietnam as well as bases throughout the United States.
Following his military career, Erwin became a successful insurance agent, building trust and long-time friendships with many of his clients over his 20+ year career.
Erwin enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, hunting (anything) , gold mining, playing cards, and especially fishing from his boat “Perrydize” on the Sea of Cortez. He was also an avid walker, logging more than 1,500 miles the year he turned 80. He and Darolyn were residents of Bahia de Kino, Sonora, Mexico; a place he loved and called home with his many Mexican and American friends. Together, they were 25+ year members of the Stockton Elks, and the Club Deportivo.
Erwin was a proud, loving husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, and friend. He will be remembered for his kindness, generosity, and living life to its fullest. Also, for whistling “The Red River Valley” as he worked and tinkered!
Celebration of life to be held at a later date.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Perry family.

Sandra Wells

October 6, 1959 - July 18, 2022

Sandra Kay Patricia Wells was born October 6, 1959 in Berrien Springs, Michigan to Donald and Adeline Wells. Sandra had many fond memories of her small town and Lake Michigan. She completed high school in Georgia and her LPN degree in Hensdale, Illinois. Eventually she migrated to California where her family had relocated. There she earned her RN at Loma Linda University and her Bachelor’s degree at California State Stanislaus. Sandra settled in Stockton to be near family and began working at St. Joseph’s Medical Center, she worked there for 17 years. In 1996 she graduated from UCSF with her Master’s degree and became a Nurse Practitioner. Sandra eventually went to work at Stockton Hematology/Oncology as an NP for 16 years. Her last career stop was at Kaiser Permanente as the NP for the Oncology Survivorship program

Sandra had a huge heart and went out of her way to help people. She was kind, loving, thoughtful, and loyal. In 2001 she took on her biggest role and became a mother to Alex. A few years later, Thomas arrived. Her sons were her biggest joy and her life revolved around being their “mom”.

Sandra loved travel, the ocean, scuba diving, camping, bicycling (she rode 150 miles twice), baking (especially her famous Christmas sugar cookies), and reading.

She is survived by her sons Alex and Thomas, her sister Marion Bynum, niece and nephews Roxanne Shimizu (Dave), James Shearer (Debbie), Steven Shearer, great nephew Dakota, and her long time best friend Dorene Tomei (Charlie). Her brother Don proceeded her in death.

Sandra left us much too soon and will always be in our hearts.

SERVICES:

Services will be held August 4, 2022 at Cherokee Memorial Lodi in the Evergreen Chapel at 10:00 A.M.

Evelyn Garrison

April 8, 1930 - July 18, 2022

Evelyn Eleanor Garrison Haley peacefully went to be with our Heavenly Father on July 18, 2022, at the age of 92, with family by her side. She was born in Timbo, Arkansas on April 8, 1930 to William Arlie Garrison and Vera Irene Fielder - Garrison. She married the love of her life, Marvin Leon Haley Sr. on February 26, 1949. They had four children, Marvin Leon Haley Jr. , Rachael Dean Haley-Kulling, Rebecca Ann Haley-Sellers and their sweet baby boy Harry Milton, who died at the tender age of six weeks old.

Evelyn is survived by her children, Marvin Jr, (Debbie), Rachael (Arthur), and Rebecca. She also is survived by 5 grandsons, 13 great grandchildren, and 2 great - great grandchildren, and one baby boy, Atticus Wayne, soon to be number 3! Evelyn is also survived by her brother–in-law Kenneth Lamar Haley (Diane). She was an aunt to many nieces and nephews, and a wonderful loyal friend to many people.

Evelyn was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Marvin, of 69 years, and her precious baby boy, Harry. Also her siblings Michael Garrison, Ronnie Garrison, James Garrison, and Carolyn Garrison Hughes. Also her adoring son-in - law Dennis Sellers preceded her in death.

Evelyn Haley was always known to be a virtuous woman. Her teaching on how to conduct her own life came from the bible. She was known as a positive person, always putting the needs of others before her own. She was honest and helpful to those who needed her influence. She was a friend to all not only in her thoughts, but also in her selfless deeds. Her calming peaceful ways were very apparent to others. Her life and actions were an example we can all emulate. Evelyn was well known for her fantastic cooking skills not to mention her hospitality! She never knew who her family was bringing home for Sunday dinner or how many, but she was always prepared.

SERVICES:

Services and reception to be held July 30, 2022 at Discover Church located at 760 S. Ham Lane, Lodi 95242, from 1:00-3:00pm.

Graveside committal services to be held July 31, 2022 at Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi at 11:00am.

Dolores Fonseca

March 14, 1929 - July 15, 2022

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Fonseca family.

SERVICES:

Services for Dolores will be held on Monday August 1, 2022 at 10:00am at St. Anne’s Church located at 215 W. Walnut St. in Lodi, California.

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Lawrence Perucca, Jr.

September 16, 1956 - July 8, 2022

Larry entered into lasting peace on July the 8th 2022.

Larry was Welcomed in to this world on September 16th,1956, along with his twin little sister to his parents Emeline Annette (Becker)Perucca and Lawrence John Perucca Sr. Larry was the most cherished brother to 5 sisters!! When Larry was a little older he moved was living in San Jose, California where he met and married his loving wife of 44 years Cheryl Lynn Perucca. Larry has been an extremely devoted loving father to his 3 daughters, Jamie Perucca, and her children that were lucky to have two titles from Larry (papa, father figure), Angelina Nixon (husband Jay Nixon) and then his son Larry Perucca the 3rd(wife Sharla Perucca) and his daughter Michelle Mitchell (husband Sammie Mitchell). Larry was such a devoted, loving, and FUN Grandfather aka PAPA..HE loved to play tricks on his grandchildren also with teaching them skills, like gun safety and dirt bike riding.

He is survived by grandchildren, Samantha, Jason and Natalie; Austin, Alexis, Andrew and Alijah; Larry the 4th, Michael and Daniel. Levi, SJ(Sam jr) and Jaxon. He is also survived by a host of nephew and nieces whom all got a taste of his humor, yet still greatly respected and loved him greatly.

Larry started this world as a mechanical genius. What others went to school for four years and still didn't quite get he achieved quite naturally and astonished others. Larry acquired a job at Toscano bakery San Jose, CA. where he started out as a mechanic but soon ended up in the engineering department. From there Larry moved to Galt California with his wife and children. After working at Toscano, Larry went to work Parisian bakery in San Francisco where he was an engineer for many years and was even promoted to assistant chief . After the closing of Parisian San Francisco, Larry went to work at Columbus bakery in Oakland where he remained until his retirement In 2012. But during his years as an engineer, even designed fabricated and installed a whole conveyor system that went from the oven all around the top of the building to one end of the building and back to cool the bread down and back to the bagging department. It was quite something!!! The words that Larry will be extremely missed are not big enough.

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Memorial Services:

The memorial service for Lawrence will be held on Saturday August 6, 2022 at 10:00am in the Vineyard Chapel located at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 Beckman Rd. in Lodi California.

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Manuel Rocha

October 3, 1928 - July 7, 2022

Manuel Francisco Rocha entered into lasting peace on Thursday, July 7, 2022, at his home in Stockton California. Manuel spent his 93 years of life in the Stockton area, where he met and married the love of his life Ernestine Perez.

Manuel is survived by his three loving daughters Lillian Sapien, Suzanne Pascual and Victoria Rocha, his sister Lupe Rocha, brother Danny Rocha, his 3 granddaughters, 6 great-grandchildren and beloved companion Molly, his dog. Manuel, a dedicated family man was cared for by his daughters who guided his passing in his home. Manuel was preceded in death by his parents, and brothers Tony and Richard and sisters Virginia Zaragoza and Angie Cano.

Manuel was born to Trinidad Rocha and Mary Fries on October 3, 1928. He practiced automobile repair as a true master mechanic. Manuel was the Service Manager for several local auto dealerships, and at one time was the President of the Nissan Service Managers Group of California. Manuel’s most cherished employment was with Service Electric, where he maintained a fleet of vehicles, among his other responsibilities for over a decade.

SERVICES:

Services for Manuel will be held Thursday August 11, 2022 at 11:00am in the Evergreen Chapel located at Cherokee Memorial Park with a visitation before hand starting at 9:30am.

A committal will follow in the Garden of the Holy Family at 12:15pm.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Rocha family.

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Cecilia Zoe Murdock

March 20, 1943 - July 5, 2022

Cecilia Zoe Murdock, “Zoe,” of Lodi, CA, passed away peacefully at age 79 on July 5, 2022 surrounded by loved ones.

Born March 20, 1943 to Harold and Cecile Murdock in Idaho Falls, Idaho. Zoe spent much of her childhood in Stockton, CA and was the oldest of six siblings. She graduated in 1962 from Amos Alonzo Stagg High School.

After living briefly in Reno where her first job was a car hop at the Fro Stop Rootbeer Drive Inn, Zoe moved back to Stockton and began a twenty-year career in the restaurant industry, the majority spent waitressing at the Rare Steer Restaurant. Zoe also worked as a bus driver for Lodi Unified School District and delivery driver for Round Table Pizza.

In 1972, Zoe purchased her home in Lodi where she lived for nearly 44 years. It is there she raised her two daughters, Allyson and Alicia, and served as “neighborhood mom” to countless others. Whether it was a meal, a safe place to stay or a shoulder to lean on, Zoe exhibited a heart of gold to whomever crossed her path, and loved unconditionally. She always had time for her family and loved being with her grandchildren. To those who knew her, she was loved and admired. Zoe was amazing and definitely one-of-a-kind!

Zoe was predeceased by her daughter Allyson and granddaughter Lindsey, along with parents, Harold & Cecile; brother Hal; sister Kay and sister-in-law Mary. She is survived by her daughter Alicia (Rob) Smolke; sister, Fay Murdock; brothers, Joe Murdock and Dee Murdock; brother-in-law, Dennis Ellis; Grandchildren Melinda Ramirez, Justin Murdock, and Ryan Smolke; Great-grandchildren Levar Smith Jr., Ravel Smith and Alliyah Smith; Great-great grandson, Alijah Smith and numerous nieces and nephews.

SERVICES:

Services will be held Thursday, July 14, 2022 at the Cherokee Memorial Park Cemetery, 14165 N. Beckman Rd. in Lodi. Visitation will be held from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. at the Evergreen Chapel, followed by graveside services at 11 a.m. in the Garden of Memories.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in her honor to Grace & Mercy Charitable Foundation, 425 N. Sacramento St., Lodi, CA 95240. www.gracemercyfoundation.com

Stanley Williams

April 1, 1931 - July 5, 2022

On July 5, 2022, Stanley Vernon Williams passed from this world into the presence of his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Stanley's life focused on serving the Lord Jesus Christ and being the cornerstone of his family. He loved his children and his many grandchildren, who brought joy to his life. Stanley enjoyed and loved attending their activities and spending time with them.

Throughout his life, he enjoyed being involved in the church. He not only shared the love of the Lord with his family but he shared it with the members of his church family as well. Stanley's cheerful and kind spirit has been a blessing to many. He acted as a greeter for the church and his warm and welcoming smile was often one of the first to be seen by those attending. His generosity to friends, neighbors, and employees is well known in the community.

Stanley Williams was born on April 1, 1931 in Ripon, CA to his loving parents John and Sadie Williams. On June 27, 1959 he married Teresa E. Williams. They resided in Lodi, CA raising their three children, Janette, Roger and Todd.

Stanley was proceeded in death by his wife Teresa, his parents John and Sadie (Bodeson). His siblings Francis “Roy,” Chester “Chet,” Leslie “Dean,” John “Lyle,” and youngest sister Sadie Mae (Wautier).

Stanley is survived by his children, Janette, Roger and Todd. His grandchildren, one great grandchild, and many extended family members that are blessed to have known him. He will be missed and forever be in our hearts.

SERVICES:

A memorial service will be held on Thursday, July 21st at 10:00 a.m. in the Vineyard Chapel, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, at Cherokee Memorial Park with a viewing an hour prior.

Proceeding the memorial service there will be a procession to the gravesite with military honors.

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A reception will be held at Vintage Church after the memorial service.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in remembrance of Stanley to Vintage Church, 444 West Turner Road, Lodi, CA 95240

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