Vaefa Salanoa Seiuli Su’a Faatai

September 11, 1939 - March 30, 2026

Vaefa Salanoa Seiuli Su’a Faatai, a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and woman of great faith, was born on September 11, 1939, in Fagasa, American Samoa. She peacefully entered eternal rest on March 30, 2026, in Tracy, California.

Rooted deeply in her Samoan heritage, Vaefa lived a life defined by love, service, and unwavering devotion to both her family and God. In her early years as a mother, she worked diligently at the Van Camp Tuna Factory, demonstrating a strong work ethic and a deep commitment to providing for her family. She was honored with the matai (chief) title of “Su’a,” chosen to represent her family—a reflection of the respect, trust, and leadership she carried with grace and humility.

Vaefa was a devoted mother and grandmother whose home was filled with love, wisdom, and warmth. She was known for her kindness, her strength, and her ability to uplift and care for everyone around her. A true prayer warrior and worshiper, she loved to sing praises unto the Lord and lived a life fully surrendered to Him. She served faithfully for many years at the Alleluia Samoan Assembly of God Church in East Palo Alto, California, where she was one of the pioneers. Her faith never wavered, and she was known as a woman after God’s own heart.

Her legacy of faith continues through her children, all of whom are serving faithfully in ministry as pastors, deacons, worship leaders, and ministers. Her greatest encouragement to all was to always put God first—“Muamua Le Atua”—reminding everyone that when God is at the center, everything else will follow.

She is lovingly survived by her five sons, one daughter, twenty-four grandchildren, and thirteen great-grandchildren, all of whom carry forward her legacy of faith, love, and strength.

Vaefa leaves behind a legacy that will continue to live on through her family and all who knew her. She will forever be remembered, cherished, and deeply missed.

“One generation shall praise Your works to another, and shall declare Your mighty acts.” — Psalm 145:4

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David Alan Lewis

David Alan Lewis
June 17, 1959 - March 28, 2026

Dave was born in San Bernardino on June 17th, 1959 to Fred and Jeanne Lewis. He is the youngest of four siblings. The family moved to Salinas in 1966, then onto Lodi in 1970. He graduated from Lodi High in 1977. He has done a lot in his life, from being a part of family businesses, such as Baskin Robins and Taco Bells, to dedicating his time at St. Peter school as a fun yard duty teacher! The kids loved him! Riding motorcycles was a huge passion for him. Rain or shine! He also loved wood working, making projects for family and friends. He will be remembered for his big heart, smile, and joyful attitude. He will be dearly missed by many! 

David is survived by his children: daughter Reannan and son Garrett, his brothers Dan and Gary Lewis and his sister Debbie Fine.

David is preceded in death by his parents Fred Lewis Jr. and Jeanne Lewis and close friends Kerry Janke and Rocky Ballard.

SERVICE
A graveside service will be held at 1:00pm on Monday, April 13th, 2026 at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Lorraine Katzakian

Margaret Lorraine Katzakian

August 13, 1920 - March 28, 2026

Our loving mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and great-great grandmother passed away peacefully, at the age of 105, on March 28, 2026. She was surrounded by many of her family members as she slipped the bonds of this world to join her Heavenly Father.

Lorraine Katzakian started in this world on August 13, 1920, born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma. She came to Lodi with her family in 1938. As a resident of Lodi, she met and married Bozant “Bo” Katzakian in 1942. This marriage was the beginning of her family, including three sons and one daughter. Together with Bo, she started a life of service to her new community, Lodi.

Lorraine belonged to, and participated in, many fraternal organizations over the years. The one that stands out was her membership in The Lodi Eagles Auxiliary Club #848. She was the last surviving Charter Member of that organization. A membership that should not have happened as members needed to be married to a member of The Eagles. This requirement was waived due to her engagement and up coming wedding to Bo who was an Eagle.

Among other notable actions was participating in the creation of The Lodi Boys and Girls Club Bozant and L Katzakian Charitable Foundation. Lorraine was also involved with The Woman’s Club of Lodi, and volunteered for many years as a Pink Lady for Lodi Memorial Hospital.

Lorraine had various hobbies over the years. As a knitter and seamstress, she would make soft caps for the newborn babies at the hospital. She also knitted many beautiful items for her family and friends. Another hobby was to cast and paint ceramic figures that were displayed around her house and yard. She was also an active bridge player and only stopped during her last couple of years.

She is survived by her sons; Ron (Kris) of Jackson, CA, Terry (Lori) of Clinton, WA, Reggie (Cyndi) of Lodi, CA, seven grandchildren, seven great grand children, and one great-great grand child. She was preceded in death by her husband, Bo, and her daughter, Jennifer.

The Katzakian family wishes to thank those special people who assisted our mother while she was living in her home of 64 years, and those who befriended her during her time at Brookdale. Thank you.

There will be a private family service for her burial. In lieu of gifts or flowers, the family requests that you make a donation to The Lodi Eagles Auxiliary. In Memory of Lorraine Katzakian donations can be mailed to Lodi Eagles Auxiliary #848, Barbara Meidinger 600 Sturla Street, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Bruce Wilkinson

Bruce A. ‘Hide’ Wilkinson

March 28, 1938 – March 27, 2026


OBITUARY

 Bruce Allen Wilkinson, a long-time resident of the Niles District of Fremont, Calif. and a resident of Lodi since 2018, died unexpectedly on March 27, a day before his 88th  birthday.

He was born March 28, 1938, in South Bend, Ind. He met Judy Torch Marshall in Niles, Mich. when they were 13 years old. On their “first date,” a walk home from school, Torch promised to teach Bruce to play tennis. He won their first match. Bruce was an all-around athlete excelling at football and basketball. He also became an excellent mechanic and loved working on cars his whole life.

He and Torch continued to date through high school and married Dec. 8, 1956. Their marriage lasted 69 years. When Bruce sought better work in California, he found it, coincidentally, in Niles, Calif. where his brother Stewart lived. He and Torch made it their permanent home in 1960.

Bruce immediately became a volunteer firefighter in Niles and was soon driving trucks, which became his career for most of his life. When the CB radio craze began, Bruce was hauling cattle for the Berchem Meat Company and he acquired the CB handle “Rawhide,” soon shortened to “Hide” — nicknames that stuck with him his entire life. He eventually bought his own truck and hauled commodities under contract for Jess’s Trucking. His pride of ownership gleamed in having the “shiniest chrome on the road.” After driving trucks, he worked for 20 years for the Alameda County Public Works Department. 

He kept a boat on Bethel Island, where he enjoyed many years of water skiing and camping with family and friends. In retirement, he restored and owned classic vehicles, earning awards and proudly seeing one of them featured on a calendar and a car show T-shirt. His last car was a 1940 Ford like the one he drove in high school.

An accomplished cowboy, Bruce loved traditional country music and was rarely seen without his signature boots. After retirement, he and his horses, Flash and Nikki, helped his friend Jim Coehlo brand and round up cattle in the hills above Fremont, Calif. He leaves behind a legacy of hard work and a pair of boots that can never truly be filled.

Bruce is survived by his wife Torch; his children, Jim Wilkinson (Lisa) and Julie Crivelli (Steve); four grandchildren: Stephanie Wilkinson; Shauna Smith (Seth); Erin Johnson (Chris); and Scott Crivelli (Becca). He is also survived by five great grandchildren: Norah and Maggie Smith; and Mileena, Callum and Demetria Johnson.

He was preceded in death by his parents Norwood and Beulah Wilkinson, brothers Stewart and Gary Wilkinson and sister Joyce Krause.


A celebration of life will be held at a later date. Friends can give donations in Bruce’s memory to the American Steel Car Club, PO Box 2043, Lodi, CA 95241 or the charity of the donor’s choice.

Bruce was known for his wit and quick rejoinders. Most aren’t suitable for publication, but as we tell Bruce “See you later,” we’re sure he’d shoot back: “Thanks for the warning.”


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Carlos De La Torre

December 14, 1990 - March 27, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 6:00pm on Friday, May 8th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Saturday, May 9th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Edward Sanchez Jr.

September 8, 1976 - March 27, 2026

Edward Sanchez, 49 of Stockton, CA passed away on March 27, 2026. Edward was born in Chicago, IL to Edward and Linda Sanchez on September 8, 1976.

The family moved to Lodi in 1984. Edward attended L. Nicols Elementary School, Tokay, and graduated from Liberty High School.

Edward has two children with Cynthia Duat, Edward III and Ashlee L. Sanchez. Edward worked at Pepsi, General Mills, and the Cannery.

Edward is survived by his parents Edward and Linda, his children Edward III and Ashlee. His brothers Michael (Adrienne) children MJ, Tiger, Mila, and James (Tina) child JJ. Many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

SERVICE
A memorial service will be held at 9:00am on Sunday, April 19th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Harold "Gil" Gilchrist

July 15, 1937 - March 27, 2026

Harold “Gil” Gilchrist, lovingly known to so many as “Papa,” passed away on March 27, 2026, in Lodi, California, at the age of 88. Born on July 15, 1937, in Stockton, California, Gil lived a full and meaningful life defined by love, service, and unwavering dedication to his family.

Gil was the son of the late Ellen Crewodson Jones and Edwin Gilchrist. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Larry and Billy Gilchrist, and his grandson, Shawn Callahan Jr.

A proud and honorable man, Gil served his country in both the United States Army and the United States Navy for five years. Following his military service, he dedicated many years to the United States Postal Service, beginning his career as a mail carrier and later retiring as a respected supervisor.

Above all, Gil was a devoted husband, father, and Papa. He is survived by his beloved wife of 45 years, Dolores; his children, Lisa Callahan, Shawn Callahan, Stacey (Rick) Vinen, Danielle (Rick) Espedal, Shannon (Sam) Rivera, and Rodney Gilchrist; as well as 14 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren, all of whom were blessed by his love and guidance.

Gil had a deep appreciation for Elvis Presley and was an avid collector of lighthouses and ships, both symbols that reflected his steady presence and love for timeless beauty. He was known for always showing up, whether it was for sporting events, graduations, 4-H gatherings, or life’s everyday moments. His presence was constant, his support unwavering.

He was a man full of wisdom, always ready with thoughtful advice for whatever life brought your way. He was funny, kind, and deeply caring. He was a man who made everyone feel seen, supported, and loved.

Gil’s legacy lives on in the countless lives he touched. He will be remembered not only for what he did, but for how he made people feel safe, valued, and unconditionally loved.

SERVICE
A viewing will be held on Wednesday, April 8, 2026, at 9:00 a.m., followed by a service at 10:00 a.m. at Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Paul Calderon

July 27, 1984 - March 26, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 1:00pm on Friday, April 10th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Friday, April 10th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240

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Loris Dawn Enzminger

July 2, 1937 - March 25, 2026

Loris Dawn Enzminger, 88, of Lodi, died March 25, 2026, following a short illness. She was born to Emil and Emma (Broschat) Martin on July 2, 1937, at New Rockford, North Dakota.

At the age of 7 she moved to Lodi with her family. She attended Lincoln and Needham schools, and graduated as valedictorian of the Class of 1954 at Lodi Union High School. She worked as bookkeeper at Goehring Meat for many years, and then at Dole Fresh Fruit in Victor.

Loris married her high school sweetheart, Elden Earl Enzminger, on February 10, 1956. They were married 38 years until he passed away June 16, 1994, and were blessed with 2 children. 

Loris was a member of First Baptist church of Lodi since 1947, where she enjoyed singing in the choir and serving as church clerk, financial secretary, in the Women’s Missionary Fellowship, and volunteering in the church office. She attended all of her high school class reunions, and recently served on the committee. She enjoyed music, reading, working with numbers, and over the years was treasurer of several organizations. 

Loris is survived by her daughter Debbie Sue Williams (and husband Mike) of Galt; son, Darren Todd Enzminger, of Lodi; and Melynda Cadenhead, who was like a daughter to her. Also, 2 grandchildren Curtis Williams and Brooke Hummel (Russel) and 6 great-grandchildren, Zachary, Nicolas, Jackson, and Maximus Williams and Charlee and Jaycee Hummel. 

MEMORIAL SERVICE
A memorial service will be held in the Chapel at First Baptist Church Lodi on Wednesday, April 8, 2026 at 11am.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to First Baptist Church, 267 N. Mills Ave. Lodi, CA 95242.

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Lee Roy Herron II

Lee Roy Herron II

May 9, 1972 - March 25, 2026

OBITUARY

Lee was born in Stockton, CA, to his late parents, Lee Sr. and Sharon Herron. He is survived by his three siblings, Susan McCarthy, Michelle Sapata, and John Herron.

Lee was survived by his 3 beautiful children, Lee III, Kayla, and Kelley, as well as his two grandchildren, Lee IV and Kailee. He was known to others by his nicknames: Spark, Wayward Son, Joe Mama, and "#1.”

Lee served his country in the United States Naval Reserve until 1998. He then continued to serve his community as a part of CDCR, where he eventually retired as a lieutenant in 2022.

Lee had a quirky personality and loved to crack a joke whenever he could. He enjoyed spending time with his children and family, camping, and taking trips. Lee moved mountains for his children. He was a devoted 49ers fan who loved watching the games with his father and son. He adored his dogs, Vader and Zeus - man's best friends. He will be deeply missed as a father, grandpa, brother, and uncle. Rest in Heavenly Peace, until we meet again.

SERVICE
A graveside service will be held at 11:00am on Tuesday, April 14th, 2026 at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Tomasa Guzman Mendoza

January 15, 1930 - March 24, 2026

Tomasa “Tommy” Mendoza, 96, of Lathrop CA passed away on March 24th . She was born in Calexico, California on January 15, 1930. She was preceded in death by her loving husband, Cruz Mendoza, and her sons, Manuel Guzman and John Guzman. She is survived by her children: David Mendoza, Mary Keathley, Edward Guzman, Joe Chavez, Danny Mendoza, and Donald Mendoza.

Tomasa was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. She was known for her kindness, generosity, and selflessness. She was always willing to help others whenever possible.

She spent many years volunteering her time in a variety of ways, including at the American Cancer Society Discovery Shop in Stockton, CA. She created lasting and beautiful memories with those she loved. Memories of her detailed sewing projects, the countless meals she made for each of us, and the smile she always had when we walked in the door.

She will be deeply missed and forever loved.

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 5:30pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 6:30pm on Monday, April 6th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00am on Tuesday, April 7th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240. The final committal will follow in the Chapel of Flowers in Cherokee Memorial Park, located off  Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Harold W. Monroe

October 1, 1929 - March 24, 2026

Harold “Hal” W. Monroe passed away on March 24, 2026, after a short illness. He attended schools in Ottawa Kansas and graduated from Ottawa University in Kansas in 1951 with a BS Degree in Biology and Chemistry. Upon graduation from Ottawa University, he enlisted in the Navy and went through boot camp in San Diego. On completion of boot camp, he attended the Naval Storekeepers School while waiting for appointment to Naval Officers Candidate School in Newport, Rhode Island. He graduated from OCS in March of 1952 and was assigned to the antisubmarine Destroyer USS Renshaw DDE-499 stationed in Pearl Harbor. On his way to Pearl Harbor from Rhode Island he stopped off in Ottawa to marry Mary DeFries, his fiancée and a student at Ottawa University.

Mary later joined him in Hawaii and enjoyed the three years they were there even though Hal was gone half of the time while participating in the Korean conflict and the 1954 Operation Castle H bomb tests in Bikini Atoll.

Hal left the Navy in February of 1955, returned to the west coast and began his 34 year career with the JCPenney Company in the Oakland, California store as a management trainee. In 1961 after a few promotions in the Oakland store, Hal was promoted to assistant store manager in Walnut Creek. In 1964 he was promoted to Men’s Merchandise Manager on the Group Staff in Oakland under Darrell Parkin, District Manager. While on the Group Staff he served as Group Merchandise Manager and Group Sales and Merchandise Manger. In 1968 he was promoted to Girls and Infants Merchandise Manager under Stewart Bates in the New York Corporate Office. In 1973 Hal was promoted to Corporate Custom Decorating Manger replacing Charlie Logan. In 1977 Hal left the New York Office to return to the west coast as manager of Hawthorne, California. He later served as manager of Carson City, Nevada and retired as manager of the Stockton, California store in December 1989.

In retirement Hal enjoyed cycling, skiing, golf and scuba diving (having completed 255 dives) and a second career in property management as software operations manager for ten years.

Hal served on the board of the Greater Chamber of Commerce of Stockton, the board of United Way and was president in 1988, the board of Stockton Symphony Association, the board of Goodwill Industries of San Joaquin, the Measure W Citizens Oversight Committee, an active member of Central United Methodist Church and the Rotary Club of Stockton, a golf coach with First Tee of San Joaquin, Club secretary and HCSC Foundation Representative of the Northern California/Nevada HCSC LMG.

He is survived by Mary, his wife of 74 years and children Linda Monroe, Michael Monroe (Victoria) and his daughters Emily (Miles) and Molly, Mark “Doug” Monroe (Leslie) and their children Katherine, her daughter Adaline and son Atticus; and Victoria, her sons Nathan and Dylan; sister-in-law Cleo of Phoenix, Arizona; sister-in-law Alice Jo De Fries of Lawrence, his brother Gene Monroe and brother-in-law Stanley De Fries preceded him in death, many nephews and nieces.

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Isabella Marie Schiaffino

Isabella Marie Schiaffino

August 24, 2004 - March 24, 2026

Isabella “Bella” Marie Schiaffino, 21, of Lodi, CA passed away in her sleep on March 24, 2026.

 Bella was a kind, loving soul, who lived more in her short life than many of us will live in our long lives. A woman of devout faith and conviction, she loved teaching Children’s Church and sharing her love of Christ with those around her.

 Fueled by a compassionate heart, Bella found true purpose in caring for others. She was only one year away from earning her bachelor’s degree in nursing - a path reflecting her dedication to help those in need.

 She had many different passions ranging from horseback riding, tractors, shark conservation, boating on the Delta, riding her dirtbike, driving her car, shopping, babysitting, Sonic cherry limeade slushes, pickles, Cheez-Its, and cooking with her family.

 From Disneyland to China and everywhere in between, Bella was a lifelong traveller who loved planning vacations. Lake Tahoe in particular held a special place in her heart.

 Bella will be remembered for her coy smile, sneaky sense of humor, wry wit, and how she was a little bit devious in the best possible way.

 Bella is survived by her parents, Tina & Emil Brodston and Mason & Jennifer Schiaffino; her siblings, Nash, Emmalina, Chance, and Caitlyn; her aunts and uncles, Roger, Danny, Kim, Maggie, Melvin, Josh, Emily, Steven, and Elizabeth; her grandparents, Vera, Gigi, Pat, Mary, Dean, Dan, Paula, Margaret, Carolyn, Lori, and Robin; along with countless other loved ones. She is preceded in death by Nana Peggy, Papa Clay, and Papa Marc.

VISITATION

Visitation will be held on Thursday, April 2 from 4:00pm - 6:00pm at Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240 on Thursday, April 2 from 4:00pm - 6:00pm.

SERVICE 

A service will be held on Saturday, April 4 at 11:00am at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church, located at 2400 Oxford Way, Lodi, CA 95242.

 In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Isabella’s name to St. Jude Children’s Hospital to reflect Bella’s passion for nursing and children.

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Joan Hughes

Joan Hughes
February 15, 1933 - March 23, 2026

Joan E. Mendenhall Hughes, age 93, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on March 23, 2026, in Lodi, California. She was born on February 15, 1933, in St. Louis, Oklahoma, to Gale Wesley Mendenhall and Edna Esther Link Mendenhall.

Joan spent her early years in Wewoka, Oklahoma, where she attended elementary school and the first three years of high school. In 1950, she moved to Lodi, California, at the invitation of her aunt and uncle to complete her senior year at Lodi Academy. Through determination and hard work, she supported herself by providing housekeeping and preparing meals for a local physician’s family, graduating in May 1951.

In the fall of 1951, Joan continued her education at Southwestern Junior College in Keene, Texas, where she studied secretarial science. It was there that she met Leroy Hughes. They were married in June 1952 and shared 62 devoted years together.

Joan was deeply devoted to her family and took great pride in creating a warm and loving home. She was creative and resourceful, contributing to her household through a variety of entrepreneurial pursuits. Over the years, she operated a home doughnut bakery, sewed church pew cushions for congregations across the United States, and designed decorative crafts that she sold in markets throughout the Dallas–Fort Worth area.

In 2012, Joan and Leroy moved to Lodi, California, to be closer to family. Leroy preceded her in death in 2015.

Joan was also preceded in death by her three younger siblings and her youngest daughter, Jeanine Griffith.

She is lovingly remembered by her daughters: Debbie Clausen of Yucaipa, California; Judy Hanson of Woodbridge, California; and Susan Gilbert of Idaho; her grandchildren: Walter Hubbard, Laura Hubbard, Karen Clausen-Brown, Desiree Gilbert, and Michael Gilbert; her great-grandchildren, Ava and Naomi Hubbard, along with many extended family members and dear friends who will cherish her memory.

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Jerry Curtis Cearley III

June 7, 1983 - March 22, 2026

Jerry Curtis Cearley III known to the world as “JC” passed away March 22, 2026 presumably from exhaustion after spending 42 years, showing the rest of us what a real man was. He was a natural actor, a natural comedian, a natural athlete, a natural chef, a natural friend and of course, naturally really, really good looking. 

Coming in at a whopping 20½ inches and 7 lbs 4 oz, six weeks premature JC was born June 7, 1983 to Jerry and Bonnie Cearley, in Stockton, California. He stood a head taller than 99% of his classmates all through elementary school and would grow to be 6 foot 3 inches 275lbs at his leanest. A Frame that he would go on to shame, lesser men with for years to come. An inquisitive child he loved legos, science and space. Interest that would serve him well in the future.

JC had a heart the size of a watermelon and made life long friends effortlessly with anyone he met. In 1988-89 Colonial Heights elementary school recognized greatness and selected JC to be a “grupe art all-star.” That’s when he would meet Kendall Clark, a scrawny child with a severe overbite. They traded a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for an egg salad sandwich, laying the bedrock for a friendship that would last 37 years. An inseparable duo, both were naturally humorous (although some might say Kendall was funnier, note: Kendall wrote this) and aided by their physical differences they would spread laughter everywhere they went. 

At colonial heights JC would start to form a close group of friends in Andrew, Chris, Erik, Kendall, and Mike, later adding Ben in high school. At the hands of JC they would suffer through years of wet Willy’s and stink palms.(Ask Kendall) Lighthearted trickery that he had refined with constant practice on his younger siblings Bobby, Johnny , Meilani, and Taran. Free from repercussions due to his size he’d simply giggle with delight regardless of how upset people got. JC found these tricks hilarious and would eventually put them to use on his own children.

He was instilled with a love of sports and competition from a young age and was gifted with phenomenal family traits of strength and athleticism. JC played baseball & football all through elementary school. In middle school he spent most of his lunch recesses emasculating his peers and teachers alike with his ultimate frisbee skills. 

However, it would be at Lincoln high school where he would truly shine as a three-sport athlete. A member of the track team JC threw the shot put. He was a two-way lineman on the football team and helped lead Lincoln to its first ever Section Championship. As a heavyweight wrestler he would routinely humble his opponents. Competitors would usually roll over and play dead once they got a whiff of his superior pheromones but those that didn’t were quickly dominated. JC went undefeated his senior year, would go on to place 2nd in the state of California and ranked in the top 10 nationally. He not only excelled in sports but was also a social butterfly and stole the stage in several theater productions. 

Both JC and Kendall were nominated for Mr. Nice Guy an aptly named honor. But being ever the nicer guy (again kendall wrote this) Kendall recused himself from the running because they wouldn’t let them be in each other’s skits. The aforementioned skit was an unforgettable dance routine in which JC was in drag and performed numerous lifts- proof that there was truly nothing he couldn’t do. JC would go on to win Mr. Nice Guy his senior year and it truly couldn’t have gone to a kinder fella. 

Always proud of his roots JC had the Tongan coat of arms tattooed on his calf when he attended a Royal wedding on the island of Tonga after graduating high school. His calves would come to be constantly coveted by undesirable solicitors wanting photographs. 

JC went on to Fresno State on a wrestling scholarship, continuing crushing hearts and minds while pursuing his passion for engineering. During his time there, he experienced one of his greatest achievements: welcoming his first child, Adam Cearley, on September 4, 2003. Thrilled at the prospect of fatherhood, life was looking up. Unfortunately, a serious training injury—a torn ACL and meniscus—required surgery and brought his collegiate wrestling career to an end.

Undeterred, JC returned to Stockton and shifted his focus to family—and, naturally, to a new challenge: mixed martial arts. He began training in Muay Thai, kickboxing, and Brazilian jiu-jitsu. No longer just a wrestling powerhouse, he became, quite literally, a Swiss Army knife of butt-kickery. He competed in professional state athletic commission events throughout California until a sudden bout of vertigo brought that chapter to a close. Probably for the best—he was entirely too pretty for combat sports anyway. Still, JC continued training and received his black belt in Brazilian jiu-jitsu, a passion he would later pass on to his children.

He had taken some hard hits but nothing could prepare him for Thanksgiving, 2005. JC would get knocked off his feet when he met the love of his life, Christine. Three short years later, JC and Christine would get married on September 20, 2008 beginning a partnership built on love, strength, and unwavering support. Their romance would span over 20 years and spawn 3 beautiful children. Christine would provide the stabilizing force that would allow JC to follow his dreams. 

A true family man he was a virtual rock for the entire family. JC cherished the role of eldest son and older brother. But it would be with Christine that he built his greatest legacy. They would welcome Lana Cearley April 2, 2009, followed by Jerry “JJ” Cearley May 23, 2012 and finally Adelaide Cearley July 10, 2024. 

JC was a loving husband and father who found his greatest joy in spending time with his children—whether playing games, watching movies, coaching sports, cheering from the sidelines, or, on occasion, passing down a few of his more questionable childhood traditions. He brought together his love of wrestling and family by helping train his son Adam, and later his daughter Lana, for the Lincoln High School wrestling team.

With Christine’s encouragement, JC returned to school. Proving to be the total package of both brains and brawn, he earned a bachelor’s degree in Electrical/Computer Engineering from the University of the Pacific, followed by a master’s degree in Computer Engineering. He later worked as an account manager for Molex, commuting to San Jose and continuing to provide for his family with dedication and pride.

Those who knew JC will remember his strength, his humor, his generosity, and his larger-than-life presence. He had a rare ability to make people feel welcome, valued, and entertained—all at the same time.

JC is survived by the love of his life Christine, his four children Adam, Lana, Jerry "JJ", and Adelaide along with his granddaughter Kaelani Rios. He is also survived by his parents ,Jerry and Bonnie Cearley, and his siblings Bobby (Erika), Johnathan "Johnny", Meilani and Taran Cearley.

After years of hard work, perseverance, and a relentless drive to better himself and provide for his family, JC left us far too soon. But if there’s any comfort to be found, it’s knowing he spent his life doing exactly what he loved—lifting others up, making them laugh, and, when necessary, making them tap out.

People say nobody is perfect but apparently those people never met JC.

VISITATION
A family visitation will be held from 10:00am - 11:00am on Friday, April 10th, 2026 at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, located at 1510 W Century Blvd, Lodi, CA 95242.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 11:00am on Friday, April 10th, 2026 at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, located at 1510 W Century Blvd, Lodi, CA 95242.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Cearley family.

Elaine Janelle Gray

Elaine Janelle Gray

September 20, 1943 - March 21, 2026

OBITUARY

Elaine Janelle Gray passed away on March 21, 2026, nearly a year and a half after being diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She was born in rural South Dakota, the youngest of eleven children. Born completely deaf, she spent her childhood attending residential schools for the Deaf—first in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, and later in Berkeley, California—where she learned to communicate using American Sign Language (ASL). She went on to graduate from Gallaudet University, the nation’s only university dedicated exclusively to Deaf and hard-of-hearing students.

Elaine lived her life with fearlessness and curiosity. In her 20s, she traveled the world on her own, often remarking that navigating the hearing world was no different from exploring other countries with unfamiliar languages. Her love of travel continued throughout her life, including more recent trips to Moldova and Haiti, where she worked with Deaf children.

Elaine spent many years teaching ASL to high school students in Lodi and, in her 70s, became a prolific watercolor painter, generously gifting friends and family with detailed paintings of pets, family, and landscapes.

Elaine will be remembered for her sweet, generous spirit, her open mind, and her warm, easy smile. She lived a remarkable life and met life’s challenges with patience and compassion.  She loved dogs—especially her beloved Oliver—and volunteered at a local animal shelter in Lodi. Her Christian faith was important to her, and she wished to share messages of kindness, humility, and charity with others.

She is survived by her children, Andy (Eri) and Carrie; her grandsons, Kai and Noah; her sister, Lola; and her granddogs, Grimm and Yuzu.

In her memory, donations may be made to a local animal shelter or rescue organization, or to an organization that supports the Deaf community. 

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Gray family.

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