Tristan Speck

July 14, 2003 - August 27, 2026

OBITUARY

Tristan John Speck, 23, passed away on August 27, 2026, while recovering in the hospital following an appendectomy performed on August 24, 2026, at Lodi Memorial Hospital in Lodi, California.

Tristan lived with his loving mother, Stephanie Elise Speck, his brother and best friend, Donivan Keith Speck, and his protective father, Clifford John Speck Jr. Known for his joyful spirit and kind heart, Tristan was often the happiest person in the room. Despite the challenges that came with autism, he had a remarkable ability to brighten the lives of those around him. He always found a way to make others smile, offering comfort and light even on the hardest days.

He had a deep passion for video games and loved playing with friends and family. Tristan enjoyed capturing memories through photography and video recordings at family gatherings, preserving moments that meant so much to him. He was also a creative builder, spending hours assembling Bionicles and Gundam models without ever needing the instructions. In quieter moments, he loved reading anime stories and exploring books on the computer. Tristan had a few simple favorites that brought him happiness, especially his beloved Dr Pepper and chicken nuggets.

Tristan is survived by his mother, father, and brother, who will forever cherish him and his memories, along with the countless people who were fortunate enough to have known him.

A special message from his family:
“Despite his challenges, Tristan always made the world a brighter place. He did not have a single bad bone in him and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.”

SERVICE

A celebration of Tristan's life will be held on Thursday, September 17, 2026, at 12:00 p.m., with viewing from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., at Bear Creek Community Church, 11171 N. Lower Sacramento Rd., Lodi, CA.

Marilyn June Dutcher

In Loving Memory of

Marilyn June Dutcher

December 30, 1937 - August 26, 2026

Marilyn June Dutcher passed away on August 26, 2026, at the age of 88.

Marilyn was born in Fresno, California, on December 30, 1937, to Harold Thomas Sr. and June Thomas, both of whom came from large families. She grew up in Fresno, graduated from Fresno High School, and attended Fresno State University, where she earned her degree in Education. As the oldest of eleven cousins, Marilyn naturally became the leader of the pack — an early role that would later inspire her passion for teaching.

While in Fresno, Marilyn met her husband, Bob Dutcher, just before beginning her career as a kindergarten teacher. They later moved to Stockton, California, with their daughter, Cindi Lynn, and soon welcomed their second daughter, Jodi Lynn.

Marilyn was one of the inaugural teachers when Mable Barron School in Stockton opened, and she spent many years teaching children in numerous grades. She touched the lives of countless students and families throughout her teaching career.

Marilyn was also deeply involved in her daughters’ activities and in the community. She was the ultimate Blue Bird and Camp Fire Girl leader to numerous neighborhood friends and children, a fierce and dedicated softball manager for Bobby Sox, and the ultimate horse-trailering mom, driving to countless gymkhana events and supporting her family every step of the way.

Outside of teaching and family activities, Marilyn enjoyed an active and creative life. She was a lover of the Sierras and her vacation home in Kirkwood, loved golfing with her many wonderful friends at Woodbridge Golf and Country Club, and enjoyed boating on the Delta along with her numerous craft projects.

Above all, Marilyn was immensely proud of her family, especially her four grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Bob Dutcher, and is survived by her daughters, Cindi Dutcher Hoyt and Jodi Dutcher; her loving brother, Harold Thomas Jr., and his wife, Jan; and her four grandchildren, Sierra Faith, Keely Anne, Robert Bruce, and Connor Thomas.

She was also a longtime member of First Baptist Church of Lodi, where she attended for many years and enjoyed the fellowship.

The family would like to sincerely thank Sunnyplace of Stockton for their continued care and compassion over the last few years, and especially her main caregiver, Eleanor, for the loving care she provided to Marilyn.

She leaves behind a lifetime of wonderful memories and will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. In lieu of flowers, in memory of Marilyn, please support a cause meaningful to you. Services to be held privately.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Dutcher family.

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Phillip Michael Kudenov

Phillip Michael Kudenov

OBITUARY

Phillip Michael Kudenov, 74, entered in to rest surrounded by the love of his family.  He leaves behind a legacy of profound devotion, hard work, and deep integrity.

Born in Lynwood, California, to Bill and Marian Kudenov, Phillip grew up as the youngest of four brothers.  A competitive swimmer and Eagle Scout, he graduated from Fremont High School in 1970 before studying at UC Berkeley.

In 1982, Phillip married Renie, beginning a beautiful 44-year journey together.  Phillip immediately embraced his role as a devoted father to his two sons, Chris and Ray.

A resident of Morada for 35 years, and recently of Lodi.  Phillip was a true provider and avid outdoorsman.  He found great joy in cooking for family gatherings, deep sea fishing, and hunting with his sons and grandchildren.

He set the gold standard for what it means to be a husband, father, grandfather, and man of faith.  He will be deeply missed and forever carried in the hearts of his family.

Phillip is survived by his beloved wife; Renie; his sons, Ray and Chris (wife, Vanessa); grandchildren, Zach, Christopher (wife, Giselle), Angelique, Madison, and Mia; brothers, Jerry (wife, Kathy) and Bill (wife, Sandee); and a large, loving extended family.  He was preceded in death by his parents, Bill and Marian; brother, Jim Kudenov; father-in-law and mother-in-law, David and Rose Padilla.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on, Thursday, September 3, 2026 at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Linden; 18633 E. Front Street, Linden, CA  95236.  Burial is private.  In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Shriner’s Children’s Hospital.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Kudenov  family.

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Maryanthia Willhite

Maryanthia Willhite

July 16, 1937 - August 25, 2026

OBITUARY

Maryanthia (“Mary”) Willhite passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her

family at her side. She entered eternal rest on August 25, 2026, in Stockton, California.

She was 89. Born in Imperial Valley in 1937, the family moved to French Camp when

Mary was 2 years old. Her father was a farmer, and all the children helped their father farm the land. The family ranch remained in the family for 84 years. She attended French Camp Elementary and Manteca High School. She met the love of her life, Ole Willhite, in 1954 and in 1955 they married and shared 61 years of marriage. They had three children, Victoria (Billy Sr.) Harris, Judee Willhite and Ole Jr. (Janet) Willhite. She had four grandchildren, Hilary (Mike) Seymour, Billy Jr. (Rachel) Harris, Joey (Stefania) Willhite, and Samantha (Troy) Swanson. Blessed with seven great-grandchildren, Mikayla, Mikenna and Mikenzie Seymour, Tripp and Evelyn Anthia (Evie) Harris, and Olivia and TJ (Troy Jr.) Swanson, all of whom she cherished beyond measure. She is

also survived by her sister, Cookie Bowden and brother, Johnny Vezaldenos, and many nieces, nephews, and lifelong friends. Mary lived a long, meaningful life filled with love, laughter, treasured family traditions, and devotion to those she held dear. Her family was the center of her world. Aside from her family being her number one focus, some of her other fulfilling moments were shared with lifelong friends and extended family. She will be remembered for her sense of humor and quick wit, and the way she made everyone feel welcome in her home.

Mary enjoyed golfing with the same group of women on a weekly basis. She loved casino runs with her husband, daughters, and friends. Baseball was her life, and was a diehard fan of the Athletics whom she followed since the early 70’s. She was their number one fan. She was a great cook and an amazing baker.

Although we will miss her deeply, we are grateful for the many wonderful years, memories made and lessons learned, forever to be tucked away in our hearts until we

all meet again. Her abundant love for her family will continue to live on through every

person whose life she touched. We would like to give special thanks to Dr. Kirti Solanki.,

Dr. James Morrissey (always there for us in her times of need and revered as family)

and Dr. Saharan. Special thanks to Oakcreek Assisted Living at O’Connor Woods where she resided for the past 21 months. All the staff from Dawn, Windsor, Sabrina, and we wish we could name every last one of you who provided great care and made her feel loved. You are angels that walk among us. Thank you for loving our mom.

VISITATION

Visitation will be held on Saturday, September 5, 2026 from 9:15am-10:00am in Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

FUNERAL SERVICE

A funeral service will be held on Saturday, September 5, 2026 at 10:00am in Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240. Reception to follow burial.

In lieu of flowers, if you wish, can make a memorial contribution in Mary’s name St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital St.Jude.org or to the charity of your choosing.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Willhite family.

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Roberto Rodriguez Cardenas

September 28, 1945 - August 24, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 5:00pm - 8:00pm with an evening service starting at 6:00pm on Thursday, September 10th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Friday, September 11th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Shirley J Phillips

Shirley J. Phillips

4/16/1943 – 8/24/26

OBITUARY

In loving memory of Shirley J. Phillips

On the bright summer morning of August 24, 2026, our beloved mother, Shirley Jean Phillips, passed from this earth. In peaceful sleep, she began her trip home. Five months earlier, on April 16th she had celebrated her eighty third birthday in Tennessee. Her willpower and gratitude had remained strong, despite the many physical challenges that she faced every day in the last few years of her life. Dialysis, pain, ailments of the heart, kidney and bones – her body withstood great suffering. Yet the proof of her faith was visible in her luminesce spirit, her smile and the love that she shined upon all of those who knew her.

Shirley was born in Okemah, Oklahoma in 1943, to parents Grant Leroy Neeley and Essie Geneva Fisher. She was preceded in death by her two young sisters, Marjorie, known as “Margie” and Susan Neeley. Her uncle Jimmy Fisher and she were close in age and raised together. “Jimmy was like a brother to me” she would often remark. These loved ones, she kept alive in her heart, throughout her days.

In 1960, she married Murel Dean Phillips in Linden, California. The two met in church and both attended Linden High School. Murel, was born in Arkansas and Shirley was born in Oklahoma. They would come to raise a family in Stockton, California. Their sons, Grant-Lee Phillips, being born in 1963 and Gary Dean Phillips in 1971. Murel and Shirley celebrated 53 years of marriage, before Murel’s passing on November 11, 2013. In their years together, they enjoyed family trips, camping, fishing and large family gatherings that very often spanned multiple generations.

Their family tree would grow with the arrival of three beautiful granddaughters. Gary and his wife Stephanie Phillips would welcome Gabriella Phillips and Grace Phillips. She would proudly live to see the marriage of Grace and Jackson Wiesner and the partnership of Gabriella and Teva Dagai. Grant-Lee and his wife Denise Siegel-Phillips would welcome Violet Phillips, Shirley’s youngest granddaughter. Shirley became “Granny” – remembering her own grandmothers and the role that they had played in her upbringing.

Along with Shirley’s love of family, cooking, hosting get-togethers, especially around the holidays, she was a gifted floral designer, working at floral shops in Stockton and independently with Shirley J. Phillips Floral Design. She had an artist eye and a desire to bring beauty into the world. The skillful work of her hands, the flowers she so thoughtfully gathered, was an expression of her creativity. A part of Shirley was there, in the flowers, as wedding vows were spoken, at the bedside of the suffering and at those most solemn passages, to comfort the grieving.

Like her mother, Essie, Shirley was blessed with an incredible singing voice. Her love of music may have been sparked in the church. Singing and prayer were deeply intertwined in her life. When arriving in Nashville, she joined the Christ Church Choir. It was the realization of a dream. With the choir, she recorded a gospel album at Ocean Way Studios in Nashville. She also went on tour with the choir to perform in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee. When it became difficult for her to stand for a long period or climb stairs she joined smaller groups for Sunday services, where she forged lasting friendships. She also loved Patsy Cline and Dolly Parton who passed but a day after her. Shirley’s Karaoke performance of “Crazy” absolutely captivated the room, one night in Nolensville, Tennessee. Shirley was an enrolled citizen of the Muskogee (Creek) Nation. Her mother Essie, along with her Aunt Janelle King and Grandmother Susana Little-Fisher instilled a respect for her Native American heritage. To live a life of honor and to see the hand of the creator in all things. These were the guiding principles of her life.

We ask that you keep our dear mother, Shirley, in your heart. Remember the love and the joy that she has given us all. From her beginnings in Okemah, Oklahoma, Hutchison, Kansas, Stockton, CA to her final years in Nolensville, TN, she touched many a life. Remember Shirley, as we always will. Her joyous smile, her kindness, her melodious voice and her spirit.

SERVICE

Services to be held at Cherokee Park and Funeral Home in the Evergreen Chapel, 14165 Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240, on Saturday, September 12, 2026 at 11:00 a.m

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Phillips family.

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Sandra "Sandy" Green

In Loving Memory of Sandy Green
September 20, 1948 - August 24, 2026

Sandy Green passed away peacefully on Monday, August 24th, 2026, at the age of 77. She was born on September 20, 1948, in Oakland, California, to William and Mary McLeish.

Sandy spent the last 23 years of her life in Ione, California, in the home she and her late husband, Ron, built together. Her home was her favorite place to be, especially after Ron’s passing, and it was filled with such great memories and love. 

Sandy and Ron moved to the Lodi area with their three children in the late 1970s. She enjoyed a long career in banking, most notably with Union Safe Deposit Bank and Bank of the West in Lockeford, California, where she worked for many years before retiring.

Sandy enjoyed gambling, watching the Game Show Network, and, most of all, Hallmark movies. Christmas in July was her favorite. Above all, she loved her family and the time she spent with them.

Sandy was preceded in death by her parents, William and Mary McLeish; her husband, Ron Green; and her sister, Gloria Salazar.

She is survived by her children, Tracy (James) Kves of Idaho, Kim (Troy) Wailly of Ione, and Jason (Kelly) Green of Ione. She also leaves behind her grandchildren, T.J. and Karli, Justin and Lexy, James Jr., Emily and Jimmy, Jacob and Gianna, Ashly, and Wyatt; and her great-grandchildren, Colton and Gianna, with little Wesley arriving in October. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews.

At the family’s request, there will be no services at this time. Sandy will be honored by her family at a later date.

We take comfort in knowing that she is now at peace with her husband and the family she missed so very much.

If you would like to honor Sandy’s memory, please make donations to the American Heart Association in her name.

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Jose Marcelino Sanchez Herrera

Jose Marcelino Sanchez Herrera

February 15, 1948 - August 23, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 10am - 8:00pm Sunday, August 30th, 2026 at the Zinfandel Room at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Monday, August 31st, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Marco Antonio Hernandez Lara

May 16, 1996 - August 23, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:30pm - 8:00pm with an evening service starting at 5:00pm on Thursday, September 1st, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Friday, September 2nd, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Lisa Gay Magness Shipley

Lisa Gay Magness Shipley

October 9, 1961 - August 22, 2026

OBITUARY

Lisa Gay Magness Shipley, 64, was born in Sacramento, California, and passed away from a heart attack on August 22, 2026.

Lisa shared 38 loving years with her partner, Randy Shipley, in Acampo, California. Their story began when Lisa was working as a waitress. Randy was immediately smitten with her and kept asking her out. Lisa told him she had a boyfriend, to which Randy famously replied, “Then dump him.” That persistence was the beginning of a beautiful 38-year love story.

Lisa loved being surrounded by her friends, shopping, and especially reading. But perhaps nothing brought her more happiness than caring for her beloved parrots with Randy. Her birds meant the world to her, and they were a very special part of her life.

Lisa will be remembered for the love she shared, the friendships she cherished, and the special bond she had with her beloved birds. She will be deeply missed by Randy, her family, friends, and all who knew and loved her.

GRAVESIDE

A graveside service will be held on Monday, September 14, 2026 at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Shipley family.

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Dorothy Ann Ware

January 1, 1948 - August 22, 2026

OBITUARY

Dorothy Ann (Farley) Ware was born January 1, 1948, in Marion, Arkansas, to Roosevelt and Clemmie Farley. She was the fourth of thirteen children and the eldest daughter. At the age of eight, Dorothy moved with her parents and seven siblings to Stockton, California, where she attended Commodore Elementary School and later graduated from Franklin High School in 1966.

In 1978, Dorothy married the love of her life, James Ware, in Reno, Nevada. They shared 48 years of marriage and built a beautiful life together. From their union came two daughters, Jennifer and Stephanie, and Dorothy also lovingly embraced James's two sons, Michael and Andre. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend.

Dorothy retired from Tracy Defense Depot after 25 years of federal service. She later joined the Child Nutrition Services team at Lincoln High School, where she dedicated another 20 years before retiring for a second time.

Dorothy loved her family deeply and treasured the time they spent together. She enjoyed traveling, thrift shopping, Motown music, pearl jewelry, and her favorite Oscar de la Renta perfume. She had a sweet tooth and never met a cookie, cake, or pie she didn't like. She also appreciated the simple pleasure of a good nap. Most of all, Dorothy cherished her family, especially her granddaughter, Anaiya, with whom she shared a special and loving bond.

Dorothy Ann Ware passed away peacefully on August 22, 2026, surrounded by her beloved husband and two daughters.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Roosevelt Farley Sr. and Clemmie Farley; her brothers, Sam Henry Farley, Leonard Farley, Larry Farley, and Charles Farley; her stepson, Andre Ware; and her mother-in-law, Lucille McGhee.

She leaves to cherish her memory her husband of 48 years, James Ware; her stepson, Michael Ware; her daughters, Jennifer and Stephanie Ware; her granddaughter, Anaiya Patrick; her siblings, Roosevelt Farley II (Donna), Clemmie Farley, Jerry Farley (Joyce), Mildred Farley, Thelma Farley, John Farley, William Farley (Karen), and Brenda Muhammad; her aunt, Nora Johnson; and a host of loving cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family, and dear friends.

Dorothy will be remembered for her warm heart, love of family, beautiful spirit, and the many memories she created with those who were blessed to know and love her. She will be deeply missed.

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VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 12:00pm - 1:00pm on Friday, September 4, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

CELEBRATION OF LIFE
 A service will be held at 1:00pm on Friday, September 4th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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